Saturday, November 10, 2012
我公司来了新同事,第一眼我看见他,我就觉得他很lengzai。也因为这样我喜欢了他。我知道我们是不可能的。人家可是大学生,而我呢,什也不是。连英话也说不好。我真的觉得我很没用。每当我看到他跟其他人讲话我就觉得有点失望,为什么他终是不喜欢跟我说话。也对啦我的口这么臭,是人闻到也会远离我。最近被我发现一件事,那就是每当我上面子书,他就下线。需要这样对我吗?我也是会伤心的,你知道吗。。。。虽然我知道你是不可能会喜欢我,但也摆脱不要这样对我好吗。。。我已经放弃了两个喜欢我的人,我真的不想这样做,自己知道自己的事。是不会有人喜欢我的。有谁可以忍受呢,在一起久了肯定会厌倦。我是不是要这样自己一个人生活呢?我真的觉得孤单。
Friday, July 27, 2012
woo...long time didnt update my blog. This few day happen so many thing. Me also quite upsad. First, down stair always didnt received my pick slip. Im really dunno what to said about it. Then my indian coli dun want to do receiving. I really dislike tht felow, lazy until......haihz...But one thing that made me happy is got one cute guy in my office. One more surprise news is my korean teacher already got girl fren. Wah....he really scare me. The face look like sor sor de but already got gf, and every sat will come to sunway accompany her gf.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Monday, January 30, 2012
It's has been so long i didnt write my blogger. Starting with a brand new yr, everything must be very good. Just notice the guy already get a new girl fren. i think is his classmate. Wow... this kind of ppl also can get a girl fren, really feel weird. I nvr meet this kind of small gas ppl before. even though i cant be your girl fren, we also can be like fren. But he is different, sms to him x reply. Ok is fine, start frm now i wont be care bout u. We are not fren anymore. One more bad news, SSN not able come on saturday to teach anymore, he got class at saturday which cant escape . Too bad.... What i learnt before , i almost forgot. Damn it... Start frm now i must study back what i hav learnt before.
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
bad news
Gosh... i received a bad news.....i really cant believe it ...i though i just stop for this level only then continue back on next yr. But 天意弄人!!!!!!!! SSN going to moving to out. He will move to central park and continue study at UTAR. He only can teach on saturday 2-4pm. Arg.....one class only no more class for him....I can't study with him in future .. so pity...Why ?? How come this thing will happen on me?? Haihz... 我和你之间的点点滴滴就这样结束了。。相信时间可以冲淡一切，无论如何我也祝福你一切顺顺利利，平安快乐，有缘一定可以在见。
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
holiday mood
Just came back frm shanghai one week ago. Every trip tht i going got a lot of happy and unhappy thing happen. But this shanghai trip special abit giv me a lot of happy memories. 1st ,the tour guide said want to date with me. ask me go out drink with him. BUT my mom not allow , my mom said he not a good guy. like " 白分仔" they all called the guy this name. coz he like smoking. Everytime i saw he also smoking. But i dun mind, coz we go to travel few day only so just let it be. After this few day must come back reality world. i mean have to work. Haha.. And no chance to see each other agn, coz i knw china ppl all very reality. The fellow no reply my msg!!! The last two day of the trip, finally i can drink with him liao. He drink until drunk , and " luan luan jiang hua." Me also drunk but i still can walk and talk. haha...really unforgetable scene.....his drunk face...haha
3 Reasons to Travel While You’re Young
The other night, I had a conversation with a young woman who had a number of decisions ahead of her, one of which was whether she should go to grad school or travel the world.
I told her to travel. Hands down. No excuse. Just go.
She sighed.
“Yeah, but…”
Never were more fatal words spoken.
Yeah, but… what about debt?
Yeah, but… what about my job?
Yeah, but… what about my boyfriend (or dog or car or whatever)?
“Yeah, but…” is pernicious. Because it makes it sound like we have the best of intentions when really we are just too scared to do what we should.
It allows us to be cowards, while sounding noble
Most people I know who waited to travel the world never did. Conversely, plenty of people who waited for grad school or a steady job and traveled still did those things — eventually.
Be careful of the yeah-but. The yeah-but will kill your dreams.
I was so stirred by this conversation that I shared it with a group of about thirty young adults last night, many of which were asking these very questions.
The life you’ve always wanted
When you get older, life seems to just sort of happen to you. Your youth is a time of total empowerment.
You get to do what you want. As you mature and gain new responsibilities, you have to be very intentional about making sure you don’t lose sight of what’s important.
So if you still have a reasonable amount of control over your circumstances, you should do what really matters. Because life won’t always be just about you.
During early adulthood, your worldview is still being formed. It’s important to steward this time — to give yourself opportunities to grow. A good way to do that is to travel.
So, young person, travel.
Travel wide and far.
Travel boldly.
Travel with full abandon.
You will regret few risks you take, when it comes to this. I promise you.
There are three reasons to travel while you’re young:
1. Traveling teaches you to live an adventure
When you look back on your life, you will have moments of which you are proud and maybe a few you regret. It’s likely that the following won’t be on the latter list:
•Bicycled across the Golden Gate Bridge
•Appeared on Italian TV.
•Hiked a Mayan ruin.
•Learned Spanish in three months.
•Toured Europe by train.
They’re not on mine (fun fact: I’ve done all of the above).
What, then, will be?
•Holding back.
•Being afraid.
•Making excuses.
•Not taking more risks.
•Waiting.
While you’re young, you should travel.
You should take the time to see the world and taste the fullness of life. It’s worth whatever investment or money or sacrifice of time required on your part.
It’s not about being a tourist. It’s about experiencing true risk and adventure so you don’t have to live in fear for the rest of your life.
2. Traveling helps you encounter compassion
In your youth, you will make choices that will define you. The disciplines you begin now will be with you for the rest of your life.
Traveling will change you like little else can. It will put you in places that will force you to care for issues that are bigger than you.
If you go to southeast Asia, you may encounter the slave trade. If eastern Europe, you may see the effects of genocide and religious persecution. If Haiti, you’ll witness the the ugly side Western paternalism.
Your heart will break.
You will begin to understand that the world is both a big and small place. You will have a new-found respect for the pain and suffering that over half of the world takes for granted on a daily basis. And you will feel more connected to your fellow human beings in a deep and lasting way.
You will learn to care.
3. Traveling allows you to get some culture
While you’re still young, you should get cultured. Get to know the world and the magnificent people that fill it.
There’s nothing quite like walking alongside the Coliseum or seeing Michelangelo’s David in person. I can describe the city of San Juan and its amazing beaches and historic sites to you, but you really have to see it for yourself to experience it. You can read all the books in the world about the Great Wall of China or The Louvre, but being there is a different story.
The world is a stunning place, full of outstanding works of art. See it
Do this while you’re still young. Do not squander this time. You will never have it again.
You have a crucial opportunity to invest in the next season of your life now. Whatever you sow, you will eventually reap.
Please. For your sake, do this.
You won’t always be young. And life won’t always be just about you. So travel. Experience the world for all it’s worth. Become a person of culture, adventure, and compassion.
“What if I’m not young?”
Travel, anyway. It may not be easy to do, but find a way to get out of your comfort zone. It’s really never too late.
But if you haven’t gotten sucked into the routine of life yet, I implore you — travel. It will never be easier than it is right now for you to do that which really matters.
If you’re young, have you traveled yet? Have you seen what the world has to offer and how it can change you? What’s holding you back?
If you’re older, did you travel when you were young? What regrets do you have?
BY JEFF GOINS.
I love this article so much. Wish i had chance to travel more. :)
I told her to travel. Hands down. No excuse. Just go.
She sighed.
“Yeah, but…”
Never were more fatal words spoken.
Yeah, but… what about debt?
Yeah, but… what about my job?
Yeah, but… what about my boyfriend (or dog or car or whatever)?
“Yeah, but…” is pernicious. Because it makes it sound like we have the best of intentions when really we are just too scared to do what we should.
It allows us to be cowards, while sounding noble
Most people I know who waited to travel the world never did. Conversely, plenty of people who waited for grad school or a steady job and traveled still did those things — eventually.
Be careful of the yeah-but. The yeah-but will kill your dreams.
I was so stirred by this conversation that I shared it with a group of about thirty young adults last night, many of which were asking these very questions.
The life you’ve always wanted
When you get older, life seems to just sort of happen to you. Your youth is a time of total empowerment.
You get to do what you want. As you mature and gain new responsibilities, you have to be very intentional about making sure you don’t lose sight of what’s important.
So if you still have a reasonable amount of control over your circumstances, you should do what really matters. Because life won’t always be just about you.
During early adulthood, your worldview is still being formed. It’s important to steward this time — to give yourself opportunities to grow. A good way to do that is to travel.
So, young person, travel.
Travel wide and far.
Travel boldly.
Travel with full abandon.
You will regret few risks you take, when it comes to this. I promise you.
There are three reasons to travel while you’re young:
1. Traveling teaches you to live an adventure
When you look back on your life, you will have moments of which you are proud and maybe a few you regret. It’s likely that the following won’t be on the latter list:
•Bicycled across the Golden Gate Bridge
•Appeared on Italian TV.
•Hiked a Mayan ruin.
•Learned Spanish in three months.
•Toured Europe by train.
They’re not on mine (fun fact: I’ve done all of the above).
What, then, will be?
•Holding back.
•Being afraid.
•Making excuses.
•Not taking more risks.
•Waiting.
While you’re young, you should travel.
You should take the time to see the world and taste the fullness of life. It’s worth whatever investment or money or sacrifice of time required on your part.
It’s not about being a tourist. It’s about experiencing true risk and adventure so you don’t have to live in fear for the rest of your life.
2. Traveling helps you encounter compassion
In your youth, you will make choices that will define you. The disciplines you begin now will be with you for the rest of your life.
Traveling will change you like little else can. It will put you in places that will force you to care for issues that are bigger than you.
If you go to southeast Asia, you may encounter the slave trade. If eastern Europe, you may see the effects of genocide and religious persecution. If Haiti, you’ll witness the the ugly side Western paternalism.
Your heart will break.
You will begin to understand that the world is both a big and small place. You will have a new-found respect for the pain and suffering that over half of the world takes for granted on a daily basis. And you will feel more connected to your fellow human beings in a deep and lasting way.
You will learn to care.
3. Traveling allows you to get some culture
While you’re still young, you should get cultured. Get to know the world and the magnificent people that fill it.
There’s nothing quite like walking alongside the Coliseum or seeing Michelangelo’s David in person. I can describe the city of San Juan and its amazing beaches and historic sites to you, but you really have to see it for yourself to experience it. You can read all the books in the world about the Great Wall of China or The Louvre, but being there is a different story.
The world is a stunning place, full of outstanding works of art. See it
Do this while you’re still young. Do not squander this time. You will never have it again.
You have a crucial opportunity to invest in the next season of your life now. Whatever you sow, you will eventually reap.
Please. For your sake, do this.
You won’t always be young. And life won’t always be just about you. So travel. Experience the world for all it’s worth. Become a person of culture, adventure, and compassion.
“What if I’m not young?”
Travel, anyway. It may not be easy to do, but find a way to get out of your comfort zone. It’s really never too late.
But if you haven’t gotten sucked into the routine of life yet, I implore you — travel. It will never be easier than it is right now for you to do that which really matters.
If you’re young, have you traveled yet? Have you seen what the world has to offer and how it can change you? What’s holding you back?
If you’re older, did you travel when you were young? What regrets do you have?
BY JEFF GOINS.
I love this article so much. Wish i had chance to travel more. :)
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